This blend of flowers is for those who lack confidence in their ability to achieve goals or to perform as well as others. Also suggested for individuals
who may have had disappointments or setbacks in life. This essence brings determination and self-belief while staying focused on the task in hand.
If needed for a specific occasion, start at least two weeks prior to the event.
Ask yourself these questions:
- Are you nervous and shy?
- Do you lack confidence in yourself?
- Do you suffer from low self-esteem?
- Do you sabotage yourself?
- Do you choose not to try things because you expect failure?
- Do you have an inferiority complex?
Starting any new activity can be hard and good confidence levels are helpful whatever it is, swimming, amateur dramatics, computers skills, a new job, interviews, learning to drive, becoming a new Mum or Dad, back to college after a break. Trepidation is to be expected when you are starting
something new so Be Confident will offer you courage. It will also build self-confidence and self worth, so you know you are good enough to do it.
Ideal for those children and adults who can't stand up for themselves and who are easily intimidated. Be Confident will help you to be more assertive and to stand your ground.
Helpful for the dominated, co-dependant types who have low self esteem and don’t feel worthy of a better life. You begin to undersand about drawing your own boundaries.
For adults who don't have the confidence to get out and meet people. Maybe they have had broken relationships and so lost confidence in themselves as far as a new relationship is concerned. A course of this blend will move you off the starting blocks.
This blend is generally ideal when there are setbacks with learning something new e.g. falling off a bike or pony, getting ducked while swimming, having a bump in the car. Confidence is lost. Perhaps you have tried something and it has gone wrong more than once. "I'll never be able to do that again' you wail. Be Confident will keep you positive even if there are setbacks.
Use also if you have a poor sense of self, belittle yourself, are over apologetic, feel powerless, inferior, submissive, feel valueless, guilty, sabotage yourself, expect to fail, won’t try new things, lack motivation or staying power etc
How to use:
Take 1 pillule 4 times a day.
Take the Be Confident a few weeks before an event to start building up confidence and inner strength to begin something and carry it through.
Consider taking Be Calm on the actual day to settle any nerves.
Be patient, these things take time to grow and tackling to much to soon is unrealistic.
Use more frequently if particularly under confident.