Ideal for dealing with everyday situations that call for greater love, forgiveness and acceptance i.e. relationships, children, at the work place.
Particularly useful when strong feelings emerge and there is a need to diffuse them and gain greater insight. Its effectiveness can be boosted if taken by partners/family members at the same time.
Ask yourself this questions:
- Having trouble in your relationships?
- Is there a breakdown in communication?
- Respond aggressively? Say unkind things?
- Are you immobilized by your feelings? Don’t know the best thing to do?
- Do you ever feel defensive or threatened? Touchy?
- Feel unable to express powerful feelings positively?
- Feel unhappy but don’t know why?
Applications:
Ideal for difficult relationships of any form, lover, family, parent and child, also those at work.
When you are irritable, bad tempered, critical, intolerant, angry, withdrawn etc. Ideal for adolescents.
Might bring out why there are difficulties in certain relationships, in which case a further essence might be needed. Often people are unconfortable with closeness as they might have been hurt in the past. In which case try the Be Courageous or Be Calm for a while and then go back to the Be Loving.
An ideal blend if you are unhappy and don’t know why, or still feel angry and bitter over a past break up or from any bad experiences from the past that might have closed the heart and made you hard.
This blend opens and softens the heart, bringing out a more loving side. It helps you to connect more lovingly and feel happier and more forgiving with yourself and others. You can enjoy life more, even simple things like the animals, flowers and the sky. You become more responsible for yourself and stop blaming others for your problems, or expecting others to come and make it better in some way. You realise that the point of power is within the self and you start to exercise that power.
Communication is always an issue with these type of problems, hopefully this blend will encourage some new beginnings, so its ideal if you are having couple counseling. Even counseling for yourself over past relationship issues will benefit from this treatment.
How to use this blend:
Take as a three week course, 1 pillule 4 times a day, then review.
Tip
Better results if both people take it and seek help if possible.
Any forgiveness exercises are helpful with this blend.
